DEVOTION – DAY 394

Ephesians 4:2-3 “Keep The Peace”

Ephesians 4:2-3 “Be completely humble and gentle, be patient, bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.”

The early church in Paul’s day was a mix of Jewish and Gentile believers. They were brought together through the reconciling work of Jesus Christ on the cross. He died for the sins of mankind so that all who called on Him as their Lord and Savior – whether they were Jew or Gentile, would be forgiven and reconciled to God, the Father. Having been included as part of the church, it was important for believers to remain united despite their many differences. In vs.2-3, Paul reminded every believer they were to be completely humble, gentle, patient and bearing with one another in love and to keep peace. When they observed these qualities, there would be unity in the church. This advice is also relevant today in every church.

There are churches where members disagree with each other over issues that sometimes forces these churches to split. There was one church that ended with different church services so that opposing member groups would not need to see each other. The members had forgotten to be humble, gentle, patient and bearing others in love and to keep peace. Instead, they have insisted they were right and that the other party was wrong. They had allowed emotions and harsh words to drive each side apart. 

In every church, there are bound to be differences and disagreements. The correct way of resolving differences and disagreements is to be humble, recognizing that no one is entirely right, that everyone has a point of view. It is therefore important to seek understanding as to why someone has an opposing point of view. It is important to hear another person out, to be patient and gentle. It is important to pray and to ask the Lord to help each other to show love and consideration. In so doing, many conflicts may be avoided and peace is brought about.

Let us pray: Heavenly Father, You are loving, gentle, kind and peace-loving. Please help us to follow your example when we interact with others so that peace and love will prevail in our churches. We humbly ask this in the gracious name of the Lord Jesus Christ. Amen.

Questions

1. Why do people disagree and argue with each other?
2. What areas do you need to change so that you can be more patient, humble, gentle, and forbearing in love to others?
3. How can you help someone you know resolve their differences and disagreements with others?

What are some experiences you can share of how relationships had soured and how some have been resolved because efforts were made to restore peace in God’s way?